Friends of The Same Sex

Don't worry this isn't a post to promote gayness nor it is a focus on Mr. Universe candidates...


Either way, just ignore my manly legs =)

This was a group picture we took in the guys dorm before the term ended, for what reason?? Well one main reason for this was to be a picture that our Cambodian friend U Mong could take back to remember all of us, well not everyone is here but good enough~~

But just felt random in the office now to wanna blog about what a joy would it be having friends of the same gender, and how sometimes it can be better than friends of the opposite gender~

Now.... to make it clear, I'm not being sexist or anything ok??? I'm just writing this from my point of view by being a man, I have never been a girl before so I do not know how this works for the other side~~

*Ahem*
Same Sex: You can go around to lend your hand to a friend of the same gender, maybe it could be a pat on the shoulder, or a hug, or even a comforting pat on the back to encourage~ and yes it can be very encouraging in times (of course sometimes it could be a whack in the wrong areas for entertainment purposes -_-)

Different: try to randomly do it to a girl and see she scream and slap you anot??
Same Sex: he can take off his shirt for a photoshoot and it'll be a joke that everyone would love and click on "like"

Different: becomes pornography, or as what other hamsap people use as an excuse: "Art"
Same Sex: you can play sports with your full might, and don't care of crashing or kicking one another, just as long as you play and win

Different: you'd usually play like you're handicap because "giving chance mah"
Same Sex: You can punch one another for no particular reason and even randomly..

Different: Go and randomly punch a girl and she'll see you in court
Same Sex: friends of the same sex can give you a more different kind of happiness

Different: Not to say girls don't make me happy, they really do in fact =) but the kind of happiness is a totally unexplainable and different feeling
Same Sex: You tend to become more gila than people would think you to be~~

Different: Don't know, would most likely mellow down a bit... I'm sure you'd noticed alot of people who are more gila with their bunch of friends in the same gender??
Same Sex: When you've got hit in that particular spot, we'd go OOooo!!!!! And understand your pain immediately

Different: Erm.... cannot explain to them unless they have it too...
Actually there's a LOT more examples why sometimes the friends of the same gender can be nicer... but whatever reason it may be, it's always better to have friends of the same kind, because there's also a limitation from what a man can do with a woman~~ they can become more understanding in more sensitive areas, and can easily relate...
Each man and women is different... but they are all unique in their own way~~ well in whichever way it may be, go out and get a mixture of them all ~~ and you'll see how life can become more rainbow-colored for you~~

and... well don't be like "I LOVE WOMEN!!" or "I LOVE MEN!!" and just go and have friends of the opposite sex, not to say that it's wrong... but if you don't have any friends of the same gender then I'd say something is not right with you already.....
but just go get friendships that would last, a friend that isn't ashamed to tell you of your faults, to give you a big tight slap when you'd done wrong.. but in all, a friend that isn't ashamed to give you a hug and to always stand by your side, even at times when you need someone the most... and of course... most importantly would be to get a friend that influences you in the right way.... get those that would guide you in the right path, not the path that'll screw up your life~ =)